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July 17, 2025 Vol 19

This is how we do it: ‘We don’t need sex for the close – we’re walking around naked, kissing and flirting’ | Gender


Lucy, 41

While Kyra lasts a long time to have -climax, we usually have sex over the weekend – it takes One Saturday morning

Although I have more experience with women than Kyra, she has a higher sex drive than I am. I had fun having sex once a month, while Kyra wanted two or three times a week. So we arranged once overnight. When we have sex, I will live with that buzz, but I think Kyra wants to live in that buzz.

The fact that he was four years older and this was his first lesbian relationship was probably part of it (when we met, I was 26 and he was 22). But it’s more than – Kyra wants Joy all the time. He was hedonistic and wanted to do everything. Then do it again, and again. He makes life happy. This is what I love her. If we hadn’t had sex for two weeks, Kyra would say: “It’s really bad.” But it won’t bother me.

We do not have to have sex for sexual assumptions. We walked naked, lay down on the sofa, touch and kiss. Get the bums of each of the bars. Play so much. But I felt closest to Kyra behind the closed doors, when I and I were. Talking about annoying things, such as how the car needs a mot. I can be my real self when he’s around me.

While Kyra lasts a long time to climax, we usually have sex over the weekend – it takes a Saturday morning. Brunch plans are out of the question. Other times, he may suggest a fast -paced club, or on the sofa after work, but in reality he will not be able to return home until 7pm, and dinner is in the oven. So maybe this doesn’t happen in the way he thinks.

If I ask if his needs are met and discuss the opening of our relationship, he will say, “I want more sex, but I just want it to you.” I can be stubborn and think: you can’t. But then I turned around and realized what my husband asked for something that was simple to me, and I was holding back hardness or laziness.

Kyra and I were not the same of people who met almost 16 years ago. Our approach grew up with us and we made each other who we were. When things like how we put sex first, we can be weak and talk about it without worrying about how others will react.

Kyra, 37

Big, lucy is strong Hands I see attractive -attract. Sometimes when I masturbate, I just think of his hands

Before Lucy, I always wanted to have sex with girls, but I never met a hot, butch, cool tomboy like her. That is why it exploded when we were together. I was living in a shared house, and we were going to my room on a Friday afternoon and the lunch appeared on Monday. It’s like over a year. I wish to have sex all the time.

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Lucy has a big, strong hands that I find attractive. Sometimes when I masturbate, I just think of his hands. I am an active thinking and find it frustrating how straight and uncomplicated Lucy is. I was trying to get her fantasies to her, but she was fighting and said she didn’t do anything like me.

It also takes me longer to orgasm, while Lucy is very easy. And because I have to go to orgasm to make fun of, the gender we have is impatient and lasts two or three hours. As before Lucy, she puts more effort and energy, which is partly why I have sex. Behind his mind, he thought: “How long is it?”

But I think Lucy thought I wanted to have sex more than I did; Once a week is enough. Sometimes I want her to have a higher sex drive, but I don’t feel any pressure to start sex; Lucy started it. If we hadn’t done so for a week or two, and we were in bed on a Saturday morning, kissing, giggling and gossip, I would think, “Here we go”.

There are times in our sex life – it’s ebbs and flow, it emerging. It may be romantic and loving for a while, but at the moment it is more kinky. Recently, I became more interested in butch-femme dynamic, where Lucy was in control. It acts on what attracts me to women: strength, power and masculinity. And I want to feel feminine, or powerless, in contrast. I hope it will always change, because I know that the future is not aware.

Thora Simonis

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